Rebecca L. Palmer, an accomplished Orlando family law attorney and 1994 Stetson Law alumna, has emerged as a leading voice in addressing the impact of artificial intelligence on romantic relationships in family law practice. Her groundbreaking research and insights explore how chatbot romances are reshaping marriage, infidelity, and custody considerations.

In the interview, Stetson Law asked: Could an AI relationship be considered marital misconduct?

“These are uncharted waters, and where things get complex,” said Rebecca Palmer. “Legally, marital misconduct such as adultery requires involvement with a person. Because chatbots aren’t “legal persons,” they don’t meet the statutory definition. However, from a practical standpoint, an AI affair might still have emotional consequences that impact alimony, property division, or parenting decisions. Judges may not label it “adultery,” but they could consider the emotional distance or deception involved when evaluating fault or credibility, and that decision could affect custody or financial outcomes.”

Furthermore, Stetson asked: How should family law attorneys prepare for this emerging issue?

“The time is now for attorneys to broaden their understanding of human-AI interaction,” said Rebecca Palmer. “We can’t dismiss these relationships as fantasy anymore; they have tangible emotional and legal consequences. Legal professionals should stay informed about evolving technology, privacy laws, and evidentiary rules, and guide clients through the emotional and ethical implications of AI use. As with every technological shift, family law must adapt to protect human dignity as human and digital affection evolves.”

To read the interview in full, click here.