Every day offers us moments to celebrate the little things in life. In 1994, Congress unanimously passed “The Parents’ Day Resolution” establishing the fourth Sunday of July as a perennial day of commemoration. As National Parents’ Day rolls around this year, it offers the perfect excuse to celebrate all the wonderful things parents do at every stage of their children’s lives. But for families dealing with divorce, this day can sometimes feel like navigating a tricky obstacle course. When children can’t spend the day with both parents, it might stir up mixed feelings. Don’t worry! Divorce doesn’t have to rain on your party. With a bit of planning and a positive attitude, you can still have a fantastic celebration. Here is some friendly advice on sharing time with your ex-spouse and suggestions for some fun activities to make the day especially memorable for your kids.
Good communication and planning are your best friends for planning. Start by chatting with your ex-spouse about National Parents’ Day well beforehand. The goal is to come up with a plan that keeps your kids happy. You might decide to split the day or take turns having the kids each year. Flexibility is the name of the game, especially if travel is involved. Discussing plans early on lets parents sync their schedules and make the day memorable for the kids. Being adaptable and considerate goes a long way when communicating with your ex, whether or not you have an amicable relationship.
No matter the logistics, focusing on enjoyable activities can make National Parents’ Day a hit for both you and your kids. How about a picnic in the park? Find a lovely spot, pack a delicious lunch, and bring along games like frisbee, soccer, or even a kite to fly. Outdoor adventures encourage everyone to get moving and have fun together. You can also turn your home into a creative workshop with arts and crafts so together you can make something that will serve as a lasting memory. Cooking together is another fantastic option. Plan a special meal from a family recipe that you all love or bake some yummy treats with your kids. It’s not only fun but also a chance to teach them some kitchen skills and share some easy conversations while cooking. If the adventurous spirit is part of your family connection, explore the Central Florida Zoo & Botanical Gardens, Harry P. Leu Gardens, or ICON parks for some exciting new experiences.
If the Florida weather is too hot, and indoor activities are more your style, why not have a game night? Gather up your favorite board games or video games, and let the fun begin. This is a great way to relax and enjoy each other’s company. You can also set up a cozy movie marathon at home with family-friendly films, snacks, and blankets to spend quality time together —which is the whole point of the day.
Another rewarding idea is to volunteer together as a family. Participating in a community service project can teach your kids the value of giving back, and it also makes for a fulfilling day. No matter what activities you choose, the focus should be on having a blast together and reinforcing the love and support your children get from both parents.
Celebrating National Parents’ Day as a divorced family can be challenging, but it is about recognizing your essential role in your children’s lives. For divorced families, it’s also a chance to show that despite the changes, both parents are still dedicated and loving. You can make this day special for your children with thoughtful planning and fun activities. The focus should be on the kids and creating positive experiences. It’s about showing them they are cherished, and that both parents are committed to their happiness and well-being every day of the year.
Rebecca L. Palmer, Esq. is a Family & Marital Law attorney practicing in Orlando, FL. She may be reached at rebecca@rlplawgroup.com.
